What is the Theory of true love in finding the perfect man/woman when you least expect it?????
Posted: April 11, 2010 at 8:06 pm
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I keep hearing, of not going thru all that trouble of finding love, instead let love find you when you least expect it! Just go about, your everyday routines and true will come to you when you least expect it. Can anyone explain this to me??? Because I am thinking maybe this has something to do with unhappy marriages, then again I could be wrong about this!
Love struck me 20 years ago when I didn’t want to get into any serious relationships after my first divorce. I went on this blind date, trouble is were still on that blind date 20 years later and have raised a daugther. By the way we did get married legally so what can I say.
I found my hubby when I gave up on dating and didn’t care about finding love anymore. We met, fell in love and married with only knowing each other 4 months, we are still together and it has been 10 years
This theory is true. Love will find you. I met my Husband, thinking of only talking to him, not to hurt my friends feelings. We instantly fell in love. After all the heartache’s I’ve been through in my life, my soul-mate came along, when I wasn’t looking for him. Be yourself and love yourself and when love comes, that person will love you for who you are.
You can make your Theory fit any situation that you find yourself in. If there is True love what is False love? You are creating more questions than we have answers. LOL
When you are happy and content with your life, you have an aura about you that invites people in. Ever seen There’s Something About Mary? What guy wouldn’t, didn’t want her? That is the gist of it.
As far as marriages, you may have a point. I once read something that said You should not get married because you are in love, but when you are ready to settle down, you start looking for the kind of person you can see yourself growing old with. Too many people mistake the lust/initial attraction for love and when that wears off, they are left with no basis or foundation for a lasting relationship. Love comes from getting to know someone over the course of time, through seasons.
Let go of the thing of the unhappy marriage idea.
Marriage is what you make it. If you or the wife has problems with sex, or going out doing things, you need to find out where this is coming from.
As for as finding the perfect person. . . I am sure at some point there is the ones who find love and its right for them at that time in there life, yet there are some who want love for all the wrong reasons. Love should be a two way street. Not just in it for one thing. Love is a feeling of knowing that other person loves as you are no matter what.
It maybe an age difference between them. Will it be perfect? you never know until you try it.
The other person be from another race or religion? Its not a matter of race,religion,age or even the distance between you. Its the knowing that you love each other for how you treat one another,accepting all your faults,for all the good and bad that has happened along your way and knowing that person will always be there for you no matter what.
Love is never perfect. That is what I think. The differences between two people is what makes the relationship stronger and it binds the soul, heart and spirit of two beautiful people who love one another as there are. With all the imperfections of each other.
I do with you the very best in all you have going on in your life.
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