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Young men dating gray haired older ladies?

Posted: March 29, 2010 at 7:59 pm 5 Comments

I’m a little confused and disturbed as to why a good looking young man, in his lower 30′s, would date a women in her 40′s (at least). She shows obvious wrinkles on her face and has a raspy voice like maybe she is or was a heavy smoker. She’s not in great shape by any means and dresses like a typical older mom or grandma with without updated fashion, so this confuses me even more.
He is good looking and in average shape but insecure about women. She looks like she is his mom and he won’t take her into public and tries to keep their relationship a secret.
What do men see in this type of women?
I say she is in her 40′s bcuz of her childrens ages although she looks much older than that. He does not have wrinkles or gray hair.

5 Comments »

  • MistressAlaya said:

    I think if he keeps it a secret then me on a curve, it takes a lot of guys rise to sex with older women, like many good-looking gay guys get to walk in very elderly people. . . . .

  • ladygaux said:

    If you like him just let him know!

  • Poppy said:

    ‰ engraçado, but the times when você in £o mentions what tÃtulo makes to seem. Hà ¡ many pretty women in the one of the ©cada one of 40 and além. E if it jà ¡ this ¡ in 30 diferença in £o enormous é. Perhaps the man simply adores.

  • bandit_60 said:

    what are you talking about? 40 is not old and i saw many women in their 40s and don,t have wrinkles but it,s the other way around with me. my girlfriend is 39 and i,am 60 and yes i,am gray and bald on top but that has nothing to do with me. your just looking at the outside of a person. what about looking at the inside for once.

  • penelope said:

    Excuse me, but I think I need to step up to the plate here and defend women across the board from their 30′s to 40′s as you simply are quite wrong when making your assumption that women over 30 are out of shape, wrinkled in the face, and have raspy voices, I happen to just recently turned 40 and am a size 3, however when I was 20 I was a chubby size 10, so far no wrinkles, however yes I don’t look quite as young as I did when I was 20 but I do turn many more heads versus 20 years ago, I eat right, sleep well and go to the gym, and I am mentally more healthy now then ever before in my life, I can give any 20 year old a run for their money in appearance, and I am sure that their are others out their in my age group who can also put many younger women half our age to shame, and this is not me simply being egotistic, it is me being a realistic woman who is confident in who she is. One day you hopefully you will turn 40? and when you do, you will then see just how foolish your thoughts on women turning 30 & 40 were, and if you take care of yourself, eat right, don’t fake & bake, don’t drink to much, don’t smoke, you to can look younger & feel good about who you are. Look at Demi Moore & many other women who have proved that age is merely a number. I don’t really have any desire for younger men, prefer to stay in my age group, however if someone who is 40 wants to date a young guy, who am I to judge? Same should be said about you, who are you to judge and make all these foolish assumptions? You are so wrong, but it gave me something to laugh about, and I don’t take it personal. Take Care Penelope