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If you’d prefer to be dating Asian women, then you and I have something in common. I’ve been dating Asian women for many years, in America and during my frequent overseas travels, and I’ve come up with a specific set of rules and strategies that you ought to learn if your goal is to get a hot Asian girlfriend (or enjoy dating a variety of hot Asian girls!)  

There are some distinct differences in how you should pick up Western women, versus Asian girls. When it comes to American and European women, my usual style is to be a brash, playful “bad boy” — I’ll tease women and playfully criticize them, in order to let them know I’m not so impressed with them. My normal strategy is to make girls feel that I am the one who need to be impressed.

This means never answering her questions directly (rather than giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); don’t ask HER the conventional questions (“so what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc), and instead using creative conversation techniques to keep things flowing; and it also means teasing women and “busting on them” from time to time. Not in a harsh, disrespectful way, but in a teasing manner that implies something very important to her: that you’re not an ordinary guy who is hoping to impress her and “win” her.|One way to do this is to never answer a girl’s questions directly. Instead, you always sidetrack her questions with jokes (i.e. “What do I do for a living? I’m a lion tamer.”)

And, you don’t ask her typical questions (such as “where are you from,” etc.) You With Western women, it’s important for you to take command of the conversation and steer it down the right path, and this means turning the tables and playfully busting on them. This demonstrates that you’re absolutely not an average dude.

So the question is, should you try to approach dating Asian women the same way? The answer is, in some cases you will use a similar style of flirting. But there are some changes you will need to make to your “game.”

A specialized approach is required to successfully pick up most Asian women, and much of this has to do with their culture and the way they were raised. Growing up, they watched a LOT of local “romantic serials” on television. (In America, we refer to these shows as “soap operas.”) In these shows, the handsome lead actor is always treating his woman like gold, being super “sweet” and “caring” and tending to her needs.

Often, the storylineinvolves a desperately attempting to “win” the girl, but she keeps rebuffing him — and so he keeps itrying until he does something remarkable to “touch her heart.” Then she gives in and melts, and they live happily ever after.

Asian women are deeply influenced by this stuff. They’re conditioned to expect this same type of courtship in their own lives.

Sure, there are less-traditional Asian girls who go for “bad boys.” Generally, however, well-raised Asian girls would rather die than embarrass their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears shabby clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how “cool” other women might think he is).

This also means that you can’t approach her like a “pickup artist” would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level.

Indeed, the rules of attraction and seduction do change a bit when you are dating asian women.

But it’s certainly OK to pay an Asian women a compliment on how nice she looks. I don’t advise guys to do this with Western women, because it makes you predictable and unoriginal. But Asian women, because they are so feminine and take great pride in their appearance, will be flattered if you pay them a sincere compliment on how nice they look today.

(Even though she may act shy, and blush when you tell her, this just means that you’ve touched her emotionally.)

It’s also really important for you to demonstrate masculine behavior (i.e. “be the man”) when you are with Asian girls. One thing we all love about Asian women is their femininity. It’s one of the things we all appreciate most about Asian women: they are totally feminine in nature and appearance. (Unlike American women, who have been taught to try to “wear the pants” in a relationship, and will go out in public wearing a baseball cap and baggy clothes. You won’t see Asian women dressing this way — my Korean girlfriend used to spend an hour doing her hair and makeup just to go to the store! And they always look amazing…)

I can explain to you precisely how to project a masculine “energy” that Asian women are magnetically attracted to. Just visit our Dating Asian Women site and learn these tips, plus much more, and within no time you can be attracting and dating the beautiful Asian girls you’ve been dreaming about.